This is a girl who doesn’t want to date you exclusively at this time and pulled back so that you wouldn’t get the wrong impression.

Even though you met her on an online dating service, it doesn’t mean that she is ready to start dating anyone exclusively.

She may just want to go out on dates with people at this time and get to know them.

She may have pulled back because she is worried that you have an expectation of her that she isn’t willing to give at this time.

She may not have been using the online dating service long enough to believe that she should settle with you right now.

She may believe that she should bide her time and continue seeing what else is out there.

That doesn’t mean that she would never consider the possibility of dating you exclusively.

However, that may be too much for her to think about at this time.

The first thing that you need to do in this situation is ask yourself why you took the step of asking her to start dating you exclusively.

Perhaps you are trying to rush things with her.

How long have you actually been talking to this woman?

How many dates have you been on with her?

You may have joined an online dating service because you wanted to meet a serious long-term partner.

There is nothing wrong with this.

Many people join an online dating service for that purpose.

However, it is important to ask yourself about how badly you wanted this to happen.

Perhaps you were so intent on finding someone to become your exclusive partner that you rushed things with this woman.

You may have asked her to date you exclusively too prematurely.

Perhaps you haven’t been talking to her for long and you may have only been on one or just a handful of dates with her.

In other words, there is a chance that you may have rushed the process of asking this woman to date you exclusively.

She may have been enjoying her interaction with you under the assumption that you were both moving at a good pace until you blindsided her with this request to date her exclusively.

This may be why she has now pulled back.

She was surprised that you asked her this question this soon.

She may not know how to deal with you now.

Though she was most likely enjoying her interaction with you, she may not know how to take things forward from here, or if she should at all.

If she were to continue talking to you in the same way she had been, she may feel really awkward about the fact that she knows that you want to date her exclusively.

She may worry that you will want to bring up the exclusivity issue whenever you talk to her and she may not want to keep finding herself in this position every time she talks to you.

This may be a woman that you met on an online dating service but that doesn’t mean that she is ready to jump into a relationship with any guy that she has had a decent number of conversations or dates with.

In the situation that you are currently in, something you can do is take a step back.

Stop initiating contact with her or initiating dates.

You may have put her in a situation where she seriously has to think things through.

Let her start initiating contact with you for a while from here on out.

If you allow her to do this, she may be showing that she is open to exclusively dating you at some point, just not now.

Pull back from reaching out to her first.

Let her start coming to you.

Start spending a lot more of your time talking to other women on the online dating service.

There is a good chance that she will notice that you are doing this.

This may actually start increasing your value in her eyes and she may begin to wonder whether she had made the right decision in pulling back.

When she initiates messages to you, take some time in responding back to her.

In other words, don’t always respond right away..

This gives the impression that you are less available.

This also tends to be very effective in raising your value as a catch and thereby increases the likelihood that she will start chasing you.

Do this from here on out and there is a chance that she will start reconsidering her decision to pull back.

If she doesn’t, as long as you continue talking to and trying to get dates with other women on the online dating service, you would be giving yourself some viable alternatives.