Hi Lynda,
You have been the one initiating a lot of these text messages.
In essence, you have been the one chasing him and he hasn’t been reciprocating.
He has no stakes in this relationship.
This is why it is so easy for him to tell you not to text him because you are bothering him, or to unfriend you on Facebook and block you on Instagram.
You have made him too powerful because you have been trying too hard.
The best chance for you to get him back is to stop trying so hard.
Stop initiating texts.
Let him start initiating text messages to you.
When he does text you, don’t be so quick to respond.
This is how you demonstrate more value in this relationship.
This is how you get him to start taking you more seriously.