Hi James,
If she is very shy, it is best to not be so direct about the prospect of wanting to have sex with her.
It would be better to use the approach of simply allowing the both of you to hang out without any expectations from her.
If she is in your home, avoid trying to use alcohol to get her to have sex with you.
Even if she requests it.
Instead, just hang out as good friends and enjoy each other’s company.
Make jokes, laugh, tease each other, etc.
If she truly wants to have sex with you, she will most likely start making those kind of moves on you.
Let her be the one to instigate this.
If you use this safer approach, sex may or may not happen between the both of you at your home.
However, it is best to allow her to lead.
Women want to feel safe and comfortable around a guy before they think about the prospect of having sex with him.
By simply having a fun time with her in your home, you will be giving her ample opportunity to feel safe and comfortable around you.
If she reaches that point, it will be her choice as to whether she wants to now have sex with you.
Let her be the one who initiates the process.