Anni
Hi. There’s a guy I met in the gym 3 yrs ago. He keeps on staring at me. We click really well and became more than friends in 3-4 months. (He also said that he’s shy). After that I confessed him but he said he’s not ready. But we were still close. Suddenly after 11 months (since we met) he just cuts contact with me. And I try to find out the reason reaching out to his friends and after few days contacting (on phone) him but talking like just friends. Last yr we talked for 2-3 times in a yr, he also showed some interest by unlocking me and looking at my stories and this year he contacted me (thru fb msg) and he denies that he msgd me. He also said that he isn’t interested in me. But he still stares at me in the gym. He deeply gazes..my friend has also noticed this. Is he hiding his feelings for me? He is quite contradictory when it comes to his actions and words coordination. What do I do? I have a gut feeling that he is hiding something from himself (mostly that he has feelings for me but doesn’t show/express).