Anni
It’s been a long time I have discontinued to maintain eye contact with him. (I or my friend just notice it every now and then.) Also, I have few male friends whom I talk to when he’s around (sometimes it feels like he’s jealous too.)
When I talked to him 3 days ago, I conveyed persistence if my feelings for him and that I couldn’t forget him over these 2 yrs. And said that I’ll move on if you say so. That’s when he said he’s not interested. But there’s still contradictions in his actions (stares at gym) and words.
I can wait for him to realise that he has feelings for me. But how long should I wait?
We have always supported each other in past to fulfill our own career goals (despite having around 9yrs of age gap, we were very understanding and caring), etc (And I still support him/ his opinion, if he wants time to settle, etc.) If so, I’ll focus on my career too for around 3-4 yrs.
Do you think he might realise in 3-4 yrs from now? And he would come back to me?