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It can be rough to experience a breakup with someone that you love.
It is natural to then want to get that ex back. However, in your situation, it would be best to avoid trying to do that.
She broke up with you.
Being that you had good chemistry with her and the relationship was flowing smoothly, she most likely didn’t make the decision to break up based on emotion.
She actually took some time to think it through.
Thereby, the likelihood of getting her back is very slim and wouldn’t be worth your time to pursue.
To get over this, first and foremost, acknowledge the time that you had with her and be grateful for that experience.
Then proceed to making your life as full and fun as you can.
In other words, get busy with activities that fulfill you.
This will not only help to enrich your life but it will also keep you from being idle.
If you are constantly idle, you will be susceptible to constantly thinking about her.
This would only make it that much more difficult for you to get over her.
Hang out with your friends and have fun.
Avoid talking about her when you do.
Accept that your girlfriend is truly gone and ensure that you don’t put yourself in situations where you will be reminded of her.
As long as you do this consistently, you will get over her.