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But here’s the thing, I haven’t been giving him any kind of attention since he started talking to that other girl (which was like 5 months ago). I’ve just been ignoring him since then. His interest in me renewed when our semester was about to end and we were going to have a 2 month vacation where we wouldn’t see each other. Ever since college reopened last month, he’s been chasing me very persistently even though I keep ignoring him.
Do you think he’s some kind of player? If so, why does he get so nervous and shy around just me? He clearly wants to talk to me and has been trying for months but he just isn’t able to and he could’ve easily got what he wanted by now by talking to me. Several times my friends have noticed that he wants to approach me but then he gets visibly nervous and backs out.
I also don’t understand why he’s putting in so much effort into me when he’s about to graduate in 2 months and won’t see me again. He could easily try with some other girl who would actually give him something in return and not keep ignoring him.