Nadia
Yeah I realise that my body language can be very negative (due to shyness) but that happens only when I’m around guys I’m interested in. I mean otherwise I’m a very outgoing and jovial person but even then guys don’t approach me/ask me out they just keep staring.
I also agree that it wouldn’t be a good idea for my best friend or mutual friend to talk to him. She has already talked to him once before about me and she told me later that maybe he was too shy to express his interest in me and that’s why he said he just wants to be friends because she kind of put him on the spot and asked him straight away if he wants a relationship with me and told him to approach me and talk to me if he’s interested in me. I didn’t listen to her though & I took what he said about being friends seriously.
Well anyway our college abruptly closed a week ago due to the Coronavirus scare after we saw each other in the hallway that day. I don’t know when I’ll see him again.