Best Dating Apps › Forums › Online Dating › Why does he keep pursuing me after making it clear that he doesn't want to date? › Reply To: Why does he keep pursuing me after making it clear that he doesn't want to date?
I don’t know what to do about this confession thing like am I supposed to do something? Also, what do you think his insecurities are about? He otherwise seems like such a confident guy and as you already know, he’s capable of talking to other girls.
In his case, one of the reasons I get shy and nervous around him (which results in my negative body language) is because a) I have feelings for him
b) I kind of think that he’s out of my league. I feel like he’s so popular and cool and I don’t match up to him. So I’m kind of insecure in that sense when it comes to him which causes me to become nervous around him.
Generally speaking, the reason behind my negative body language with guys could be because of my inexperience I guess. I rarely get interested in anyone but when I do, I develop strong feelings for them quickly. Like I said before, I’ve only ever been seriously interested in 2 guys including this one.
Both the times, the guys were shy and nervous around me and nothing happened. I’ve never had a boyfriend and to be honest I was never interested in dating anyone other than these 2 guys.