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Luke
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Hi Tess,

You may have to get clear on what kind of relationship he wants.

Firstly, he wasn’t communicating right.

This caused you to address it and he consequently improved.

However, now, he hasn’t come through in meeting up with you.

He may have mentioned tight meetings but that really wasn’t an excuse not to give you a heads up on the fact that he just wouldn’t be able to make the date with you.

He could have sent you a quick text to let you know about the situation but he didn’t.

He also didn’t answer your call or text.

It is not so much that you are forcing things or overreacting, it is more so that you may both be in totally different relationships.

In other words, you may think that you are in a particular type of relationship while he is thinking the complete opposite.

This is why it is important for you to have a conversation with him about the kind of relationship that you are both in and what his expectations are.

The sooner you do this, the sooner you will find out whether you are both of the same mind.

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