Hi Ron,
Yes, it can feel weird when you get the “I’m closing my account” message from a woman on a dating site. It isn’t always an excuse though. Some women do get fed up with online dating. If she hasn’t had a good time of it, she may really be looking to quit online dating altogether and close her account.
It is not always about you or about giving an excuse. You are a lovely guy, but if she has experienced a bunch of rude, unattractive guys while online dating, she has reached her limit. You just so happened to show up a bit too late. She doesn’t want to try anymore.
If you come back a few days later and notice that her dating profile is no longer anywhere to be found, she wasn’t kidding about closing her account.