Hi Ruby,
Most guys who are secure about themselves aren’t intimidated by a woman who is more successful. Where you run into problems is when the guy is insecure about where he is at in life.
At this point in his life, coming across a successful woman on a dating site who does really well for herself and earns more than him often makes him reflect on his own failures. This is where he begins to have an issue with it.
Avoid insecure men like these, and you shouldn’t have a problem meeting men on dating sites who aren’t intimidated by your success.