Hi Sarah,
The people who keep using dating apps even after meeting a great match are not the right ones for you. They are more so attracted to the attention than actually finding a serious partner.
There are people who are happy to settle with a great match. They can’t wait to get off the dating apps. So don’t lose hope. You just need to start asking the right kind of questions early on and pay close attention to the conversations you have with people.
People will often show their true intentions over time. If they aren’t truly serious about settling, they communicate sporadically, provide frivolous answers and barely ask good, fact-finding questions.