Jcouture
I’m sorry that you are going through this. It sounds like he’s experienced some type of trauma in his past relationships and it seems that it cuts pretty deep. Until he is ready to move beyond that, there’s nothing really that you can do. Get busy doing you and investing in you. Sometimes what happens with guys is that once they see that you have moved on, they become interested in you again. But for now, he’s hurting and hurt people hurt other people. So, if you continue to entertain him, it will only be a few weeks before you are back on this site posting things trying to get more understanding. The number 1 rule with dating men is if they tell you that they don’t want to be in a relationship, BELIEVE them. You won’t be able to change his mind.