Spoke to a guy constantly for 4 days,we decide we want to meet. I say we meet once he goes for his vacation and come back. But he wants to meet before and I am genuinely busy with work and whole day shifts. After saying I’d confirm within the next few days and work something out, he pulls away. Should i pursue him? The chemistry was good enough for me to not stop thinking about him.
The danger of outright pursuing a guy, especially when online dating, is in the laziness that it can cause in a guy. As a result, you may find yourself putting out all of the effort to make things happen. You shouldn’t put yourself in that position.
Instead, contact him and let him know what your availability is. This puts the ball in his court in terms of meeting up.
If he chooses not to take advantage of this and organize a time that he can meet up with you, it is best to let him go and move on.