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April 27, 2020 at 12:18 am #42219
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There’s this girl I like, were co workmates, and we still haven’t met formally. We are a bit afar from each other in our workplace but our co workers knew it and are trying to set us up, just for fun. They told her that I like her. She knew it and I can tell that she kinda knew me though we rarely see each other. We still haven’t talked with each other and I noticed that she tends to shy away, not look at me, and avoid to talk about me when I’m around. Then when this covid19 lockdown happened, I tried to send her a message via facebook messenger but she just left me on ‘unread’ and it seems that she don’t wanna read it because it’s been 3 weeks already. Is there a way that I could spark her interest and will I able to still attract her? Please help. Thank you.May 9, 2020 at 4:27 pm #42231
You could try sparking her interest by engaging with other mutual friends or coworkers that the both of you have.
Due to the COVID-19 situation, a lot of people are doing group video chats.
She may also be participating in these.
Try to get in on these group video chats with mutual friends or coworkers that you may both have.
When you do, let your personality shine through and be as talkative as possible.
This will give her a better opportunity to pick up on what your personality is like.
You may even make her laugh as you crack jokes or tell funny stories to the group.
She seems to be really shy and hence why she would avoid looking at you at work and would avoid talking about you whenever you were around.
A shy girl often needs to get comfortable with a guy before she is willing to open up.
Again, being that we are in unusual circumstances with COVID-19 and you are unable to let her get a good idea of your personality in person at this time, your best option may be in getting on these group video chats with mutual friends and coworkers.
Seeing more and more of your personality may cause there to be a spark in interest on her part and thereby, you may still be able to attract her.May 18, 2020 at 7:19 am #42285
Yeah, noted on this. Thank you very much. This is exactly what I need now. Regards and stay safe.