I just signed up on 2 online dating apps after having been in a relationship for 6 years and I feel rusty.
I started a few conversations with guys on the dating apps who haven’t shown that they ever intend to meet in person, even though they continue to keep the conversations going and the topic of meeting up has yet to come up.
So, how do I go about telling these guys that I am not interested anymore?
If you like these guys, it wouldn’t hurt to give them a hint that you would like to meet in person or just outright ask them out.
If you would much rather they do the asking out, just drop a hint in conversation by asking about what their plans are for the weekend.
In the process of telling you what their plans are, a guy who is interested in asking you out would naturally ask you about your plans and if you appear to be available that weekend, he would take that opportunity to ask you out.
Some guys just don’t know how to go about asking a girl out, that is why some of them are using a dating app in the first place. They aren’t that experienced when it comes to talking to women.
They may just need something that inspires them to ask a girl out and asking them about their plans for the weekend is the opportunity that some hope for.
If, on the other hand, you have completely lost interest in these guys and aren’t even interested in meeting in person anymore, even if the opportunity presented itself, just tell them that you have enjoyed chatting with them but that you don’t feel that there is a romantic connection.
That is really it.
The more direct and honest you are about it, the more likely they are to respect what you said and leave you be.