Why is it a deal-breaker if someone refuses to reveal their “baggage” on a dating app chat? Best Dating Apps › Forums › Online Dating › Why is it a deal-breaker if someone refuses to reveal their “baggage” on a dating app chat? This topic contains 1 reply, has 2 voices, and was last updated by Luke 1 year, 11 months ago. Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total) Author Posts January 2, 2022 at 6:51 am #63293 AdelineParticipant I matched with a guy on a dating app who said he was okay with baggage on his dating profile. As we chatted, he wanted to know what type of baggage I have and I told him that I wasn’t comfortable revealing something like that on a dating app. Just too personal. He told me that my response was a deal-breaker. January 2, 2022 at 6:54 am #63295 LukeKeymaster Hi Adeline, He values honesty and trust when it comes to relationships. To him, someone who isn’t forthcoming with their baggage is hiding something. That makes it harder for him to trust the person. To him, the lack of honesty and trust is a deal-breaker. Using baggage as a litmus test is how he goes about filtering potential romantic partners. It doesn’t mean it’s right. It is just how he sees it. Author Posts Viewing 2 posts - 1 through 2 (of 2 total) You must be logged in to reply to this topic.