Why is it a deal-breaker if someone refuses to reveal their “baggage” on a dating app chat?

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    Adeline
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    I matched with a guy on a dating app who said he was okay with baggage on his dating profile.

    As we chatted, he wanted to know what type of baggage I have and I told him that I wasn’t comfortable revealing something like that on a dating app. Just too personal.

    He told me that my response was a deal-breaker.

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    Luke
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    Hi Adeline,

    He values honesty and trust when it comes to relationships. To him, someone who isn’t forthcoming with their baggage is hiding something.

    That makes it harder for him to trust the person. To him, the lack of honesty and trust is a deal-breaker.

    Using baggage as a litmus test is how he goes about filtering potential romantic partners. It doesn’t mean it’s right. It is just how he sees it.

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