Work crush

[Oskar]

Hello there,

I have a problem, I am interested with the girl at work I have crush on her. My colleague asked her about me and she said she likes me but is scared if something won’t work out and we work together will be cringy. We work together now for 6 months and she keep looking at me and is blushing usually. I already ask her for lift home since she live near me after work. But she is avoiding that and whenever I go on launch breaks she usually disappear and is very shy near me. I think I should give up on her but it’s hard for me . I never asked her out only give her signals of interest.

[LukeKeymaster]

Hi Oskar,

Since you appear to want something more with this work crush and she tends to avoid you when you go to lunch break, it may be best to get closer to her work friends and give them an opportunity to get to know you.

This may lead to them inviting you to engage with them on breaks and she will be with them in some of those moments.

These moments will give you a better opportunity to provide her with a substantive impression of what your personality is like as you talk to her work friends.

This impression may cause her to start feeling less stressed whenever you are around and this could lead to the both of you beginning to have pleasant short greetings or conversations when you see each other one on one.

From here, you may be able to build enough rapport with her that she starts considering the possibility of giving a workplace romance a chance.

[Oskar]

Hi Luke,

Thanks for answering my question. She seem to be nervous whenever I am with my co-workers and her still, I do talk with her sometimes but she is avoiding eye contact and looking like she doesn’t really listen to me. Getting distracted all the time like I wasn’t there. Few days ago I went outside for some fresh air out of my workplace she tend to always go with my co-workers (girls) out whenever they go without asking her to come with them. For me is absolutely opposite, she tend to play hard to get looks away a lot and pretend she don’t see me many times at work feels like I did something to her. But whenever I look away for long time she tend to sneak eye on me or side eye just to see if I still look at her which I mostly do since I have crush. Since it lasts now for 6/7 months I think I want to give up on her anyway because she wants to move on and go to college to another city. Maybe that how it should be and it’s not meant to be Luke.

It’s hard to overcome it but I guess time will cure. That’s life.

Thanks Luke, I am watching most of your videos about dating techniques have a good day!

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