Guys, When Dating Online, Do You Ever Not Message A Woman That You’re Interested In?

Guys, When Dating Online, Do You Ever Not Message A Woman That You're Interested In?

There are guys who won’t message a woman that they are interested in when dating online.

These guys may visit the dating profile of a woman that they are interested in, but they may choose not to message her.

The guys that do this are often the guys who believe that the women won’t respond to them if they were to send her a message.

They worry about being rejected.

These are the kind of guys who would often worry about being rejected by women in real life as well.

They will often try to avoid it as best they can.

In the real world, these guys are typically the ones who would much rather the woman approach them.

Every relationship that they have been in when dating in the real world may have been as a result of having been approached by the woman.

With this kind of approach when it comes to dating and relationships in the real world, these guys will start dating online with the same mentality.

They may visit the dating profiles of several women that they are interested in but choose not to message the women.

They are hoping that some of these women will notice that their dating profiles were visited and choose to message them first.

That is what a good number of these kind of guys are hoping.

They don’t want to have to make the first move in messaging the woman and risking rejection.

Guys who tend to not message a woman that they are interested in when dating online can also be the kind of guys who just become obsessed with a particular woman’s dating profile.

These guys aren’t looking to send a message to the woman nor are they even hoping to receive a message from the woman.

They are merely in her dating profile because they want to look at it.

They are, in essence, dating profile voyeurs.

They take pleasure from simply watching without taking any proactive action to message anyone.

They just want to watch.

This is where they feel comfortable.

In watching, they can imagine.

They can start constructing an imaginary story about what this woman must be like in real life.

They can envision what a day in the life of this woman would be like.

These kind of guys may find themselves coming back to the dating profiles of the women that they are interested in over and over again.

But, they don’t ever message.

Again, they are just voyeurs.

When they visit the dating profile of a woman that they are interested in, they are able to lose themselves in that world for a while.

They get to imagine.

They get to feel.

They enjoy the effect that the dating profile has on them.

They can get lost in that feeling for as long as they choose to stay in her dating profile.

Guys like this who are dating online will often never message the woman because they just don’t want the fantasy that they have created about the woman in their minds to be blemished.

This is often why these kind of guys will also choose not to respond to the woman if she were to send them a message.

Receiving a message from her would feel as though she has interrupted their fantasy and they don’t want that.

Guys like this may already have a difficult time establishing strong relationships in real life.

They are often in their own heads and may seem as though they aren’t always quite present.

They can take this kind of behavior with them into the world of online dating.

Though it may seem as though they are interested in you because you notice that they keep visiting your dating profile, they are more interested in the feeling that they get whenever they visit and spend some time on your dating profile than in actually getting to know the woman behind it.