Try not to get so caught up in how to correctly bring up wanting to meet in person.
This will only make you nervous and whatever consequent email that you send through the online dating site will feel awkward.
Relax.
Simply suggest doing something that the both of you have already learned through past conversations with each other that you both enjoy.
There is a good chance that in your previous online dating discussions through emails, you have both talked about certain activities that you both love.
You have both discovered during these online dating email interactions that you actually have quite a few activities and even experiences in common.
If you have now been sending each other emails through the online dating site for a decent amount of time and you have built up some significant rapport, you can suggest getting engaged in one of those activities.
For example, you may have both discovered during some of your online dating email exchanges that you both enjoy Japanese cuisine.
You may know of a wonderful Japanese restaurant that has just opened in town.
You could easily suggest trying out that Japanese restaurant and seeing how good it is.
Since the both of you have already established your love for Japanese cuisine in previous emails on the online dating site, it would feel like a natural suggestion.
It would make sense and it would even feel like an opportunity.
After all, you both love Japanese cuisine and there is a new Japanese restaurant in town that you can both discover for the first time together.
It would be a shared experience that is totally fresh.
This does create a sense of adventure and even togetherness.
As long as you have actually spent a sufficient amount of time getting to know this person beforehand, making this suggestion would actually feel very appropriate and natural.
The person would look at it as a way to experience something that they already enjoy with someone new.
Presenting this meet up in this fashion is very effective in making the both of you feel at ease about it.
If you were to suggest doing something that neither one of you particular likes, it may be that much harder for this person to agree to meet you in person or they may hesitate.
However, when you actually suggest doing something that the both of you have demonstrated a true love for, it makes it that much easier for this person to say yes and want to meet you in person.
Another good way to bring up meeting in person through online dating emails would be to first and foremost ask the person if they were okay with exchanging contact information.
Assuming that you have already spent some quality time getting to know this person through email exchanges on the online dating site, the person should feel relatively comfortable with giving you another form of contact information.
If they were to give you their phone number, you should call them shortly.
Talking to this person on the phone allows this person the opportunity to sense whether the both of you have real life chemistry.
Online chemistry doesn’t always translate to real life chemistry.
If you were to talk on the phone and the both of you got along really well, it would feel a lot more natural to ask this person to meet up during the course of your conversation with them.
Talking on the phone beforehand also gives you some more insight into the kind of personality that you are dealing with and they you. This way, the both of you will feel less nervous when you both meet in person and the date may then flow in a more natural and seamless way.