I Have Been Dating A Guy That I Met On A Dating Site For 8 Months, But Now, He Wants To Be Just Friends?

I Have Been Dating  A Guy That I Met On A Dating Site For 8 Months, But Now, He Wants To Be Just Friends?

This is a guy who has finally come to terms with the reality that he can no longer see a future with you.

He still likes you as a person, which is why he wants to be just friends.

You have both been dating for 8 months after having met on a dating site.

This guy has now had a good amount of time to really experience what a life with you would be like.

When he met you on a dating site, he may have been really curious about you.

You may have really sparked his interest because you had a dynamic personality and lifestyle.

He may have been really intrigued by what you had to say in your dating profile.

He may have been even more intrigued with the kind of pictures that you had posted on your dating profile.

In those pictures, you may have been showcasing a very exciting lifestyle.

All of this may have made him feel really good about getting to know you on the dating site.

When you both started dating, you may have been everything that he was hoping that you would be.

You may have been as exciting as he hoped you would be.

Hence, he may have really felt good about choosing to date you.

However, things may have changed after 8 months of dating you.

This guy that you met on a dating site may have simply experienced everything that you had to offer and he may have now gotten bored.

He still likes you as a person though, which is why he wants to be just friends.

However, he cannot deny that he is no longer excited about being in a relationship with you.

The both of you may have already engaged in a good number of the activities that were showcased in the pictures that you posted on your dating profile, if not all.

He may have gotten to experience the most of your personality.

He may have gotten to meet some of your exciting friends.

However, he may have now reached a point where his relationship with you just feels predictable.

He knows what to expect from your personality.

He knows what to expect when he engages in activities that you enjoy doing.

He knows what to expect when he gets to engage in conversations and activities with your friends.

In 8 months he may have reached a saturation point.

The relationship has become predictable.

That initial hunger that he had when he first found your dating profile and noticed your exciting lifestyle has been satiated.

He is no longer hungry.

There is simply nothing left for him to discover about you.

You may have done absolutely nothing wrong.

In fact, the both of you may barely argue, if ever.

Again, this is why he still likes you as a person and wants to be just friends.

However, he may have just reached a saturation point with you.

When he tries to imagine a future with you, he may not see anything.

In other words, he may not see you in it.

When he joined the dating site that you met him on, he may have already had a vision of the kind of relationship that he wanted.

If it was a long-term serious relationship that he was looking for, he already knew that anyone he met on the dating site would have to be someone that he could see himself with well into his future.

He may have initially seen you in his future when your 8 month relationship began.

This may have truly gotten him excited.

He may have really thought that you would be the one that he would get to share his life with.

He didn’t predict that he would get to the point that he has now reached after 8 months of being in this relationship.

However, he cannot deny the fact that he just no longer sees you in his future.

He has had a really great time with you and likes you as a person.

This is why he wants to be just friends.

Again, you most likely didn’t do anything wrong and he may truly feel guilty for spending 8 months in a relationship with you that has now led to him ending it.

But, he has to stay true to what he is feeling.