If this is a guy who has already been messaged by a good number of attractive women who turned out to have fake profiles, he may question if you are real or a setup.
Being that you are yet another attractive woman who seems interested in him on a dating site, his mind may quickly go back to all the other attractive women who messaged him in the past who ended up being fakes.
There are a lot of guys who experience this on a dating site.
Oftentimes, the majority of messages that guys get on a dating site that are from attractive women tend to come from fake profiles.
These guys may have joined the dating site not knowing what their experience was going to be like.
Once they joined, they started getting all these messages from attractive women on the dating site who seem interested in them.
They became really excited.
They proceeded to respond to these messages in the hopes that they would hit if off with some of these attractive women.
Unfortunately, their messages were often responded to by all kinds of scammers.
Some of these supposed attractive women wanted them to visit a website where they would have to enter their credit or debit card information in order to get access to see her.
Some of these supposed attractive women wanted them to provide a personal email for further correspondence.
Unfortunately, some of the guys who fell for this and gave away their personal email to the woman would often end up receiving endless spam emails to their email addresses.
In essence, these guys have really bad experiences with these supposed attractive women who send them messages of seeming interest on a dating site.
They have enough of these bad experiences that they become a lot more doubtful whenever an attractive woman seems interested in them on a dating site.
They start thinking that this must be yet another scam.
This is why they will question whether she is real or a setup.
They may not want to put themselves through the process of having their hopes being raised only to have those hopes crushed when they discover that this is yet another fake profile.
Another reason why guys may question whether an attractive woman who seems interested in them is real or a setup is because they may not be used to women that attractive messaging them in the first place.
When it is something outside of their experience, they will naturally question it.
These guys may not even be used to attractive women giving them any attention in real life.
They may have only dated very mediocre looking women in real life, if any women at all.
To have an attractive woman seem interested in them on a dating site would naturally make them question whether she is real or a setup because this is just something that never happens to them in life.
In other words, it is simply too good to be true.
The moment that they receive a message of seeming interest from an attractive woman on a dating site, they may initially think that she must have made some kind of mistake.
Perhaps she was intending to message someone else.
They may find themselves somewhat stuck on what to do.
It just didn’t make any sense that a woman this attractive would be interested in them.
They may actually stew on what to do for quite some time.
They may eventually start making themselves believe that she can’t possibly be real or that this may be some kind of set up.
This is easier for them to accept.
This way, they don’t have to deal with the prospect of communicating with a woman this attractive.
They would simply be way too nervous if they were to find themselves in that predicament.
For guys like this, it may be easier to accept that the attractive woman who is seemingly interested in them is not real or is a set up, than to think about how nerve-wracking it would be for them to communicate with her if she truly were real.