Try not to jump to conclusions.

You still need to do your due diligence in getting to know this guy as you are in the process of texting him.

In other words, no matter how nice he is, you should not allow your initial impression of him to start making you prejudge what he would be like as a boyfriend.

You may be really enjoying your texts with him to the point where you are not wanting to ask more substantive questions because you don’t want to ruin the vibe.

This is where you would be making a mistake.

If he seems nice but you are yet to get into more substantive conversations with him, it may be best for you to avoid drawing a conclusion about him at this time.

A guy can totally seem nice when you are both texting each other.

He may want to keep you happy about the correspondence and as a result, he will say all the right things.

However, until you have actually delved further into the person that he is, you won’t truly know whether he is being genuine or not.

Hence, you should start sending more substantive texts.

Avoid sticking to the same topics all the time.

These are the topics where you feel safe.

These are the topics that this guy has been able to use to make you feel good.

A part of you may not want to ruin that good feeling that you get whenever you engage in these particular topics, but you really have to start taking your conversations with this guy to a deeper level.

If you are on a dating site to find a serious relationship, you have to determine whether this guy is on the dating site for the same.

You also have to start determining what his true characteristics are.

Hence, you should start texting this guy with substantive questions.

Again, you may not want to rock the boat at this point, being that the interactions with this guy have made you feel so good.

But, though he may seem nice, you will not really be able to determine what he is truly like without asking him deeper and more substantive questions.

You should establish what he is looking for as early as you can.

It is essential that you determine this early.

If you don’t, you may start falling for a guy who actually isn’t looking for anything serious.

If he lets you know that he is looking for a serious relationship, you should follow that more probing questions.

Perhaps you ask him about some of the ideals that he tends to live by.

This is when you are beginning to get deep with your texting.

He may seem nice, but you really need to know more about this guy.

You can proceed to ask him further questions about what he hates or doesn’t like in people.

You could ask him about what ideals he tends to espouse when it comes to relationships.

You could ask him questions that relate to his relationships with his friends, family and colleagues.

In sending these kind of texts, your objective is to get to know how this guy approaches other relationships that he has in his life.

Through this form of texting, you will be able to gain further insight into how he values his relationships and how he treats people in his life.

This will help in giving you a better understanding of the kind of person he is.

To have a good balance in your texts, you should still talk about lighthearted topics and have some fun.

However, you should blend the substantive topics with the lighthearted ones.

Doing this over a sustained period of time will give you a better idea about whether this guy is truly as nice as he seems.

These kind of texts will also help you determine whether he is someone that would be a true candidate for a serious relationship.