Perhaps this is the first time that you have met a girl online through an online dating site.
You may not be entirely sure of what to expect.
Things may be going really well with the girl so far.
It is important that you do not get carried away either with overly hopeful thoughts or overly negative thoughts about this girl.
The people who are most successful in online dating are typically the ones who allow the process of getting to know someone that they met online unfold naturally.
One of the biggest mistakes that people who meet online make is when they begin to overthink things.
Things with this girl that you met on an online dating site may be going so well for you so far that you may already be thinking about making her your girlfriend or even getting married to this girl one day.
You should avoid being so presumptuous.
Though the impression that you have of this girl that you met online at an online dating site may be really good, you don’t really know enough about her to make this kind of assessment.
Again, the people who tend to be successful in online dating understand that they will need multiple interactions with someone both online and in person to really be able to determine whether this is a person that is a good candidate for a serious relationship.
If you have only had a few interactions with this girl online at the online dating site, you shouldn’t get carried away with the online chemistry that you are having with her so far.
After a few interactions with her online, you should move on to communicating over the phone.
Talking to this girl in real time is one of the best ways to get a better gauge of the type of person you are dealing with.
Some people may be really good at sending emails to each other on an online dating site but they may not necessarily have good conversational skills when it comes to talking to someone in real time.
Hence, getting this person to talk to you on the phone after a sufficient amount of time of communication on the online dating site, is a beneficial move.
You will not only be able to get a better sense of how this person communicates in your phone conversation but you will also be able to determine if there is some real time chemistry between the both of you.
If there is, a meeting in real life should be offered in good time.
This real life meeting is where you truly determine whether you have face to face chemistry.
It will also give you the opportunity to see how this person actually looks in real life.
Unfortunately, some people can be dishonest in their online dating profiles.
A person can post very old photos of themselves in order to make themselves appear younger or more physically fit.
In essence, you will never truly know what the girl that you met online at an online dating site truly looks like until you meet her face to face.
Hence, before you get really carried away with how good you feel about this girl, you should keep that excitement bottled up until you have at least gotten to meet her in the flesh.
After you meet this girl face to face and determine that the real life chemistry is there and that she is physically appealing to you, you should begin the process of courting her by setting up consistent dates and communicating with her regularly.
Eventually, you should be able to meet people that are important in her life.
If these are people of good character, this will give you some idea of the kind of girl you are dealing with.
A girl who surrounds herself with people of good character typically means that she is of good character herself.
Also, these people will give you more insight into the kind of girl you are dealing with through the stories that they tell you about her.
All of these occurrences take time to unfold.
This is why you shouldn’t get too carried away with this girl that you met on an online dating site quite yet.
Stay relatively neutral with your thoughts and emotions until you have gotten a solid notion through real life evidence for the kind of girl you are truly dealing with.