You may have been really nervous about going on this first date with her.
Meeting her on the online dating site went smoothly enough.
You certainly had a good time corresponding with her there.
You both had common interests and the text conversations were pleasant enough.
It didn’t take long before the both of you agreed to meet on a first date.
Maybe you were surprised at how quickly or fairly easy that first date came about.
Perhaps this is your first go at online dating and you didn’t really know what to expect.
You may not have even thought that you would actually get to meet someone in person on a date.
However, you met this girl on the dating site and surprisingly struck it off with her and not so long after that, the both of you had agreed to a date.
Now that the all-important first date has happened, you don’t quite know what to make of it.
You may not have all that much experience with first dates.
You may be so bewildered as to whether she had a good time at the first date that you have proceeded to ask your friends or possibly even various family members about what they think.
Although they weren’t there to hold your hand on that first date, you probably got some positive feedback from them in terms of what they thought.
They probably gave you glowing reviews after hearing your nervous description of how the date went and ended.
Although you should be feeling better about that positive feedback, it may not have been enough for you.
That may be why you have now turned to the internet for answers.
You are really hoping that she had a good time at that first date but due to your lack of experience when it comes to dating, you just need further reassurance.
There are some obvious signs that a girl is having a good time at a date.
Her body language is a strong barometer.
She may get close to you physically, touch you from time to time and give you sustained eye contact.
However, some girls can be somewhat shy or fairly conservative and may not exhibit any of this kind of behavior even when they are having a good time at a date.
This is where what she does after the date becomes incredibly relevant.
Besides strong romantic body language during the date itself, another effective way to know whether a girl had a good time at a first date is in whether she communicates with you after the date.
She may text you to let you know that she got home or thank you for the date and let you know that she had a good time.
If you received a text message like this, you are in the clear.
Voluntarily sending you a text after a date indicates that she thought about you after the fact and wanted to express herself in some way.
This is good.
If you are still in her thoughts after a first date to the extent where she chooses to put out the effort to message you, she is letting you know that she had a good time and wouldn’t mind seeing you again.
Another highly effective way to know if she had a good time at the first date is if you notice that she never went back into her dating account after the date was over.
Oftentimes, if a girl doesn’t have a good time at a first date, she will be quick to log into her dating account to see what other dating prospects are at her disposal.
She will be quick to check her inbox for messages from interested parties.
If the night ended without her logging back into her dating account, you did a good job.
This means that she probably went to sleep with you in her thoughts in some capacity.
Now, she will wait for you to ask her out on another date.
However, you better not wait too long.
Competition for female attention on online dating sites is fierce.
If you wait too long to ask her out again, she will eventually accept the offer from one of many guys who are filling her inbox with messages of romantic interest.