There is an instinctual fear within you that men don’t value a woman’s attractiveness as greatly when she passes a certain age.
As a 30 year old woman looking to settle down with a long-term partner and hoping to locate one on a dating app, you worry that you can’t compete with women who are in their early twenties.
You have heard that women in their early twenties are what men utmost desire.
You are seeking men in your age range, early to mid thirties, but worry that you won’t attract these men on dating apps.
It’s like a feverish dream where you envision a bunch of men in their early to mid thirties going after a small group of women in their early twenties, while you stand there alone in your 30 year old body, neglected.
These worries aren’t warranted.
It isn’t hard to date as a 30 year old woman on dating apps.
Regardless of what you have heard on social media or overheard in muted conversation at work, a good number of men in their early to mid-thirties on dating apps search for women within the age range of 25 to 35 years of age.
Yes, though they know that a youthful woman is the rage these days, these are guys considering their future, which includes a future family.
They know that many women below their age parameters aren’t at a stage in their lives where they are ready to commit to a long-term serious relationship or marriage and kids.
Some of these men have seen this firsthand.
They gave into the idea that a youthful woman is where it’s at and sought them out, going out on dates with them.
The margaritas and swim parties were swell, but when time came to talk about serious themes, there was nobody home.
He was a sourpuss, ruining the moment, talking about grown-up stuff.
Several dates later with several different youthful women and he realized that they weren’t ready for what he wanted out of life at this stage.
Statistically, the lion’s share of women marry in their late twenties, at 28 or so.
This is when they are ready to settle down, their biological clock is thumping, and they know youthfulness is not as infinite as they thought it was in their early twenties.
This is why as a 30 year old woman looking for a serious long-term relationship, you have nothing to worry about.
Guys in their early to mid-thirties on dating apps already know that their best shot at a serious long-term relationship and starting a family is with a woman in the 25-35 age range.
Those who get their head in the clouds, insisting on dating younger women, eventually come to the realization that most younger women in modern day society aren’t in his headspace.
Although you are a 30 year old woman, never look at your age as an impediment on dating apps.
You aren’t an old geezer.
Given the lifespan of human beings in modern society, you are still young.
If you come off as a 30 year old woman desperate to find a match, in fear of her languishing youth and the ticking of her biological clock, you are going to turn off a lot of men, including those seeking a long-term partner for marriage and kids.
This approach is too pushy, desperate and smothering.
Lighten up.
Showcase your fun-loving personality and men within your age range will deem you irresistible.