If you have been having a really good correspondence with this girl, you are typically going to know when it is a good time to ask her to meet up for coffee or ask her for her phone number.

If you have any experience with talking to women on a romantic level in the real world, there is typically a moment where it just feels natural to proceed to asking her to meet up for coffee or asking her for her phone number.

Think back to the moments in the real world where you have proceeded to do this with a girl that you had been talking to on a romantic level.

You may realize that it most likely happened at a time that you felt as though you had a pretty good sense of what she was like as a person.

You had probably already come to realize that the both of you had quite a few things in common.

The conversations just seemed easy between the both of you.

Perhaps there had already been some light flirting here and there.

You both had been communicating consistently with no questionable gaps.

The both of you had put in the effort to have real conversations with each other that took some time as opposed to merely just being polite in asking how each other’s weekends went.

In essence, the both of you had built good rapport and had an affinity for one another that didn’t feel forced.

This experience in life is no different than the experience that you should have been having with this girl that you have been interacting with on an online dating site.

These are the experiences that you should be looking for.

How effectively and easily do the both of you communicate?

How consistent have the messages and responses been between the both of you?

How often have you made each other laugh or smile?

Does it feel as though that person has become a part of your day in the way that going to work or the gym is to you?

In other words, it would feel really weird or awkward if you were to go for a significant number of days without communicating with this girl on the dating site.

Have there even been moments of light flirtation between the both of you?

Perhaps, you have both even reached the stage where you have been comfortable with teasing each other or making fun of each other in a goodhearted sense?

These are all things that you can look back to in order to help you decide whether it is a good time to ask her to meet up for coffee or ask her for her phone number.

Again, if you have been having all or some of these kind of experiences in terms of rapport building with her, you will just have a natural inclination to ask her to meet up for coffee or ask her for her phone number because it would just feel right.

The both of you may have already dropped some subtle hints to each other in conversation about meeting up without even realizing it at the time.

This is when you need to ask her to meet up for coffee or for her phone number without delay.

If you take too long to do this, she may think that you don’t actually like her romantically and she may start putting out less effort to talk to you as a result.

She would do this in order to avoid being led on and hurt.

This is when you could lose your opportunity with her even if you were to eventually come around to asking her to meet up for coffee or for her phone number.

It may simply be too late by that point.