At a certain point, you become so convinced that you suck at FaceTime dates that it becomes a fulfilling prophecy almost every time that you are on a FaceTime date.
It is the same thing as someone who keeps thinking that they can’t make that free throw.
Once they have that thought process locked into their subconscious, they will miss most of the free throws that they attempt.
Alright, we may not be talking about basketball but the analogy in online dating is very similar.
When you already believe that you suck at FaceTime dates, your body language is going to be very similar to what you did in previous FaceTime dates that have either led to you being ghosted or not getting another date.
Take a moment and think about how you tend to behave during your FaceTime dates.
You probably act nervous because you are already thinking that you are going to suck at the FaceTime date before it has even began.
A woman is able to detect when a guy is nervous and oftentimes, this kind of behavior can come off as though the guy lacks confidence.
Women love confidence in a man and when they sense that he lacks it, it can be a total turn off.
You need to be confident during these FaceTime dates and you will see much better results.
A very effective and easy way to be confident is to just start your conversations with her around a topic that you are passionate about and know a lot about.
Think about what you are passionate about and know a lot about.
Something that you know the ins and outs of so well that you can spew information about it without effort or much thought.
That is where the source of your confidence can come from.
If you start your FaceTime date on a topic that you know about inside and out, you will be able to build a flow to your conversation that eases into another topic.
By the time you ease into another topic, your body will be full of adrenaline because you just spent the last several minutes engaged in a topic that you are very knowledgeable about.
From this point on, it’s gravy.
You will be feeling so good about yourself that the thought of you sucking on this particular FaceTime date is long gone.
Don’t worry about the topic itself and whether the girl would be bored by it.
It is not so much about whether she is interested in the topic or not.
That doesn’t really matter when it comes to the first topic.
You are trying to set yourself up to be confident the rest of the way through.
There is enough time for the both of you to touch on another topic that she may be more emotionally invested in.
All that you are trying to do with the opener is set the tone that allows your confidence to soar.
Women are impressed by men who are deeply knowledgeable about a topic even if it is a topic that they have no vested interest in.
Just hearing his know-how and the strong tone of voice in which he showcases his expertise can be enough to get her really turned on by his confidence.
This means that you could be talking to a woman about a subject that is as uninspiring as fixing a faucet leak and she will be totally engaged simply because you sound so knowledgeable about it.
That alone can turn her on even though the topic itself is uninspiring to her.
This is how you set the tone.
From here, you will move on to more interesting topics and you will do so with confidence.
To stop sucking at FaceTime dates, start with something you know a lot about and just watch how the magic happens as you segue into more interesting topics.
This is how you get consequent dates that could ultimately lead to you finding your long-term relationship partner.