She wasn’t over him at the time that she chose to join a dating site.
With that approach, it was only going to be a matter of time before she would get back with her ex boyfriend.
This is not an unusual occurrence.
Oftentimes, people who have recently broken up will join a dating site in order to mask the emotional pain that they are going through due to the breakup.
This girl that you met on a dating site may have had the same approach.
She didn’t want to keep dealing with all of the emotional turmoil that she was going through as a result of the breakup.
By joining the dating site she was hoping for a distraction or perhaps a person that she could quickly replace her ex boyfriend with as a rebound.
Unfortunately, you may have met this girl on a dating site and been completely unaware that she had an ex boyfriend that she hadn’t gotten over.
Now that you have found out that she has gotten back with her ex boyfriend, you may be feeling despondent.
Do understand that what you have experienced isn’t uncommon.
You are not always going to come across people on a dating site who are completely honest about their motivations.
You should always be careful about falling for anyone too soon.
In the early stages of getting to know someone that you have met on a dating site, you should be open but still guarded.
Make sure that you ask them a lot of questions about themselves.
The more questions that you ask, the higher the likelihood that the person will open up even more to you.
This is often where you will discover whether this person is still hung up on an ex boyfriend or girlfriend.
There are only so many questions that this person will be able to answer before they begin to give away the fact that they aren’t fully invested in wanting to get to know someone new in their lives.
You may even notice that the person isn’t taking that much interest in getting to know you as a person.
In essence, this girl that you met on a dating site may not have been asking you a lot of questions about yourself as you corresponded with her.
The few questions that she did ask you may have been very lighthearted in nature.
When a girl isn’t trying to get to know you on a deeper level, it could mean that she just doesn’t have room in her mind for that.
Her thoughts may be primarily dominated with thoughts of her ex boyfriend.
This is often what you should look for whenever you correspond with a girl on a dating site and you have been showing a true effort in trying to get to know her by asking her substantive questions.
If she isn’t asking you substantive questions in return, it could be because she has an ex boyfriend that she still has strong feelings for and thereby, she doesn’t have any room in her mind to start getting to know someone else on a deeper level.
This girl that you met on a dating site may have gotten back with her ex boyfriend because she was only using the dating site to get his attention.
She may have used the dating site to send him the message that she can easily get the attention of other guys if she wants.
This often happens when a girl is in a relationship where she constantly breaks up and makes up with her boyfriend.
It is an emotionally tumultuous relationship.
They could have a very affectionate relationship one week and be screaming at each other at the top of their lungs the next week.
Oftentimes, it is these highs and lows in emotion that leads a girl to run to a dating site and sign up.
She is screaming to herself that she is going to show him for being such a jerk to her.
She is going to show him just how badly he messed up.
She is going to join a dating site and get guys all over her in no time.
This is pure emotion on her end.
She isn’t thinking rationally.
However, once the emotion has calmed down and her boyfriend has come back to her in an apologetic way, she takes him back.
Well, until the next time they have a really heated argument.