Choice overload isn’t necessarily an influence when it comes to who gets a response from women.
Most of the messages women get on online dating sites aren’t good.
In essence, they aren’t choice-worthy to begin with.
Instead of a choice overload, it is more so, a trash overload.
It truly gets repetitive for women because so many of the men who send them these messages on dating sites think in the same way.
These men focus on their looks.
Hence, the kind of messages that these men send will often make reference to the woman’s looks.
Those that don’t reference looks will often be a generic greeting or a bland statement.
Something like, “Hello there,” “Love your profile,” or “Check me out,” isn’t exactly going to inspire a lot of these women to give responses to these men.
Hence, you do need to understand that for a lot of women, particularly the most attractive ones, the men who send them messages on online dating sites don’t give them a whole lot of choices.
These women literally have to sift through tons of messages in order to find one that truly speaks to them or is of substance.
This is why you should start thinking about all of this in a different way.
If you have been having a difficult time getting women on dating websites to respond to your messages or getting them to initiate contact, avoid focusing on the belief that this is due to choice overload.
It is not choice overload when the majority of the messages that women get on online dating sites are superficial, generic and uninspiring.
Your focus instead should be on making a really good online dating profile and sending very good messages.
A really good online dating profile is one that has several good photos of you.
These photos should be easy to make out and other than a good shot of your face which should be the primary photo, you should show yourself engaged in activities that you love in your other photos.
Also, the photos should be natural.
Nothing wrong with having a flattering main photo that shows your face.
However, you shouldn’t get tempted to solely post photos of your face and only post photos that seem like they were all taken in a professional studio.
Your other online dating profile photos should look natural and show you in environments where you are engaged in fun activities.
This makes women who find your online dating profile feel like they can identify with what you are presenting and this may make them more willing to respond to a message or initiate one.
Also, your online dating profile essay should be descriptive and fun.
Avoid being so serious.
Infuse your personality into what you are writing so that the women get a sense of how fun you are and thereby envision what it would be like to hang out with you in real life.
The messages that you send women should instantly grab their attention from the start.
One of the best ways to do this is to ask an open-ended question about something that they wrote on their online dating profile.
This is the kind of message that most women will notice and feel compelled to respond to.
By approaching online dating in this way, you can totally separate yourself from the majority of the other men who haven’t bothered to create very good online dating profiles and who tend to send unsubstantial messages.