It is not a good idea to suggest meeting in person in the first message that you text a girl on a dating website.
You don’t really know the kind of girl that you are dealing with.
Most girls, even the girls who are only on a dating website to hook up would typically want to spend some time getting to know the guy somewhat before wanting to meet him.
If you were to suggest meeting up before you have had a chance to build any kind of rapport with her, she will most likely not agree to your proposal.
You need to be a little bit more patient.
There are lots of girls who wouldn’t mind meeting in person relatively quickly.
It is normally a good idea to actually meet in person within a week to two weeks of making first contact on a dating website.
So, in most circumstances, you honestly wouldn’t have to wait for very long when you are interacting with a girl who actually likes you.
There is no need to be so rushed.
You should ask yourself about why you want to suggest meeting in person in the first message.
You may actually be doing yourself a disservice in moving so fast.
Texting a girl on a dating website for a few exchanges actually has benefits.
You actually get a better vibe of what this girl is truly like.
You shouldn’t simply use what is on the girl’s dating profile as your reason to want to suggest meeting in person in the first message.
That is not a good idea.
Even though you may have liked her dating profile, you really don’t know what it would be like to chat with this girl.
All you have is what you saw on her dating profile.
She could have made much of that up.
She could have exaggerated certain parts.
Even if she was being entirely truthful in what she said in her dating profile, you still need to interact with her in order to determine whether the both of you have chemistry.
So, again, you should ask yourself about why it is that you want to suggest meeting in person in the first message to this girl on a dating website.
Perhaps you are worried that you aren’t good with conversation.
You may be worried that if you don’t suggest a meeting in person in the first message, you will end up messing up if you were to try to engage in conversation with this girl.
Perhaps you have had experience in this.
You may have tried texting a girl that you liked on a dating website.
Everything may have seemed fine at first, she may have been responding to your messages.
However, she soon stopped responding.
You may have tried to reestablish the conversation a few times but she just wouldn’t respond to you anymore.
Perhaps you have had repeated experiences like this on a dating website.
Hence, you may have gotten to the point where you decided that you would just suggest a meeting in person in the first message and just get it over with.
You no longer want to take the time to text a girl on a dating website and try to have a conversation with her when she will only end up ghosting you.
Even though you may have had these kind of experiences with girls, you should still understand that you do need to engage in some conversation with them before suggesting to meet in person.
This will give you a much better chance of getting the girl to agree to meet you in person.
If you haven’t had much luck with conversation, try to keep things lighthearted at first.
Ask her fun questions that relate to her dating profile.
Make her laugh.
Flirt with her from time to time.
Don’t stick with one topic for too long.
Be a good listener and ask her follow up questions.
Tell her about some of the exciting experiences that you have had in life.
These are all ways that you can go about keeping a girl that you are texting on a dating website interested.
Doing this will improve the chances that she will agree to meet you in person when you ask her at the appropriate time.