You are trying to connect with someone that you have never met in life.
You are in essence communicating with someone in cyberspace based on what you have gathered from their dating profile.
This can be weird to people who are used to finding dates in real life.
People who are used to this manner of finding dates understand what it normally entails.
They normally have a good idea of who they are dealing with because that person is right in front of them.
They are able to communicate in a way with this person that allows them to ascertain whether there is chemistry between them or not.
It can be weird when trying to ascertain chemistry with someone that you are communicating to through cyberspace.
It can feel incredibly weird at first because the things you would normally have gotten a particular kind of response to from someone that you were interacting with in the real world would have a different feel online.
For example, if you were to flirt with someone that you met for a date in real life, you would be able to quickly tell how it affected that person.
If that person liked the flirt, they may blush or giggle or even give you a coy look.
When you are flirting with someone on an online dating site, you can’t really determine how that person responded.
You aren’t getting the kind of instant feedback that you are used to getting when dealing with someone in real life.
Hence, it may be really difficult for you to ascertain whether the both of you have chemistry.
This is especially true if you are someone who isn’t used to the online dating space.
If you are new to online dating or you have only started online dating recently, you may truly be lost as far as how you can ascertain whether you are having chemistry with someone.
This can be truly weird for you at first and you may wonder if you made the right decision in joining a dating site.
If you are going to continue online dating, it is best to learn how you can determine if you are having chemistry with someone.
One of the best ways to determine this is in how often they either flirt back or initiate a flirt.
If they are constantly flirting back whenever you flirt with them, there is a very good chance that you are establishing chemistry with this person.
Also, if they start initiating flirts, this is also a very strong sign of chemistry.
It means that the effects of the last conversation where you both flirted stayed with them even after the both of you finished interacting.
They most likely couldn’t wait to chat with you again online.
When they logged into their online dating account, they chose to initiate a flirt in the hopes that you would reciprocate.
This is how this person is showing that they are feeling some true chemistry with you.
Also, the more the both of you chat online and the easier these conversations flow is an indication that you are having chemistry with this person.
You will be able to tell by just how much at ease and comfortable you feel whenever you send this person a message or respond to a message that they sent you.
It is definitely possible to ascertain whether you have chemistry with someone online.
You just have to know what to look for and perhaps give the getting-to-know-you stage some more time than you may have had to if you had met this person in real life.
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