You matched with him on an online dating site and have only been on a date or two with him.

For him, it’s too soon to share his Facebook with you.

To this end, his refusal to not share his Facebook isn’t a red flag.

Despite matching on a dating site with a mutual goal to meet a long-term partner, don’t be too hasty in your expectations of him.

Even though you have enjoyed the few dates you have had with him so far, and you are feeling good about him, that doesn’t mean that he shares the same sentiment.

For now, he continues to size you up, requiring more dates to get a much better read on whether you are someone he wants to take seriously as a potential partner.

Never get ahead of yourself when it is this early in the courting stage, no matter how strong of a connection you feel for a guy that matches with you on a matchmaking site.

Women frequently make a critical blunder in getting ahead of themselves when they are excited about a guy.

It’s too presumptuous.

Letting your emotions take over your common sense is dangerous.

It’s only been a date or two.

As long as he continues to consistently communicate with you and ask you out on dates, that is good enough when it is this early in the courting stage.

Being that you are seeing a lot of promise in this guy, you don’t think it’s a big deal to share Facebook information with him.

It’s second nature to you to chat with people on Facebook.

Also, getting a guy to share his Facebook this early into courtship hasn’t been an issue in the past.

They have all gladly volunteered it.

This goes for men you have met on internet dating sites and in real life.

Quit thinking that he is like any other guy you have gone out on dates with in the past.

He is his own person.

By expecting him to share his Facebook this early and letting yourself become disappointed that he didn’t, you risk putting pressure on him in future interactions.

Future conversations and dates with him are overshadowed by your disappointment.

He senses it in your voice and general disposition whenever he is interacting with you.

Before you know it, he is pulling away, discouraged by how your attitude has changed.

Is this the outcome you want?

When it is this soon, don’t get ahead of yourself.

Let the dates play out.

Let the conversations flow with the same ease as they have in the past.

A guy doesn’t require a ton of dates to figure out whether you are someone he wants to take seriously and make his future girlfriend.

His goal is to find a long-term partner.

That is why he joined the dating platform to begin with.

A month or two of courting is enough for most guys to get a solid idea on whether a girl is for them.

Are you capable of giving him that much time?

If you think this would be a struggle for you, but you don’t want to risk chasing him away, ask him about whether he has a preferred social media for communication.

It isn’t out of the question that he is open to sharing different social media with you outside of Facebook.

Should he offer one that isn’t Facebook, be thankful for it and avoid judging him.

Sharing a different social media with you at this early stage doesn’t mean that he will never share his Facebook with you.