When you signed up on a dating app, you had a number of qualities you were looking for in a potential partner, but they were centered around personality and values more so than what the person did for a living.
Strangely enough, you never thought that hard about what you want a potential partner to do for a living.
Your mind was primarily concerned with their personality and values.
Putting ‘no’ to drinking on dating apps is a reflection on who you are as a person.
Though some people in your circle are making a big deal out of this, telling you that doing this makes you look lame or boring on dating apps, pay them no mind.