Knowing how long he has been using the dating app provides a better perspective on where he is coming from in telling you that he isn’t ready to commit.
A guy who has been excessively using the dating app for a long time, a year or longer, without any breaks, isn’t intent on committing to any one woman.
Having been on the dating app for that long, he has had ample opportunity to meet a good match and commit.
Some guys say whatever they believe you want to hear to get what they want out of you.
Telling you that they want a relationship and even stating as much in their online dating profile isn’t a guaranteed indication that they truly want that.
But, you take them at their word and choose to talk to them, even go out on a few dates with them.
The longer a person is involved in a friends with benefits or fwb relationship, the higher the chances that feelings will develop.
You need to be sure that you aren’t talking to a woman who has been in an fwb relationship for a long time and is still trying to resolve whatever feelings she developed for the person.