Knowing how long he has been using the dating app provides a better perspective on where he is coming from in telling you that he isn’t ready to commit.
A guy who has been excessively using the dating app for a long time, a year or longer, without any breaks, isn’t intent on committing to any one woman.
Having been on the dating app for that long, he has had ample opportunity to meet a good match and commit.
Some guys say whatever they believe you want to hear to get what they want out of you.
Telling you that they want a relationship and even stating as much in their online dating profile isn’t a guaranteed indication that they truly want that.
But, you take them at their word and choose to talk to them, even go out on a few dates with them.
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Experience.
Some of these dudes have chatted with girls on an online dating site who got too excited about them too quickly.
These are girls who were loving the conversations and relieved to have finally encountered a dude who was capable of sustaining them.
Guys who are truly interested in getting to know you don’t lose interest when you express an interest in getting to know them more.
These are guys who want to take the time to get to know you as they are on a mission to find the most compatible match for them on a dating site.
These guys prefer it when there is an equal balance of information divulged about either party.
Slippery slope.
The longer a person is involved in a friends with benefits or fwb relationship, the higher the chances that feelings will develop.
You need to be sure that you aren’t talking to a woman who has been in an fwb relationship for a long time and is still trying to resolve whatever feelings she developed for the person.
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