Although you have attempted to have a conversation with your match on topics outside of the first meeting that you have both agreed to, he continues to ignore those messages.

He seems only concerned with briefly chatting with you about meeting in person and nothing more.

Yes, you are looking forward to meeting him in person, but you aren’t enthused about how he doesn’t want to chat about anything else but that.

You haven’t been online dating for long, and his behavior has you wondering whether his reluctance to chat about anything else besides meeting in person is cause for concern.

Although I have had my fair share of idiosyncratic matches on a dating site, I must say, this situation is one I dreaded whenever I was at the receiving end of it.

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Texting isn’t your thing.

You have never had much luck with it.

When you have texted someone of romantic interest in the past, something has been lost in translation, and you have lost out on the person.

This has habitually left you with a substantially bad feeling.

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Asking you what you do for a living is a speedy route to get an idea of what your lifestyle is like, who you associate yourself with, and how you think.

What you do for a living says a lot about who you are as a person.

Although it is a turnoff to you, finding out what you do for a living streamlines the online dating process for him.

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In the fast-paced world of online dating, matches want instant gratification.

Once he matches with you, he wants to be acknowledged by getting a quick response and getting you to meet up with him as fast as possible.

These guys are swiping right on every dating profile they come across.

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Unfortunately, there are people on dating apps who are there for the attention.

In saying, “Hiii!,” and nothing else in his message, he is purely concerned with getting a reply from you.

He isn’t asking you anything about your dating profile, which is a strong indication that this is all about him, and he has no romantic interest in you.

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