This isn’t taking the other person into consideration.
When either party knows that there is a definitive distance between the two, it is inconsiderate to only pick a spot that is convenient to one party over the other.
Regardless of the fact that you two were introduced on a dating app, and regardless of her agreeing to meet you on a date, she wasn’t obligated to show up.
Without a doubt, not showing up on a date that was already agreed to by both parties is cruel.