Although you are rightfully concerned about who you attract by putting your prestigious job title or industry on your dating profile, it’s still important you do.

Dating sites are different from meeting people in real life.

In real life, at a bar or club, it’s easy for you to convey yourself through your personality and charm her with that first, without her knowing what you do for a living.

When it comes to dating sites, that concept is upended.

Dating sites are akin to a brochure that people are paging through.

What’s flashiest is what stops people and grabs their attention.

That means that your profile needs to sell you.

Yes, you are practically advertising yourself on dating sites.

The men who succeed on dating sites are the ones who immediately grab attention in what they show on their dating profiles.

You don’t have the advantage of being in a bar or a club and charming a woman with your personality first.

She doesn’t know you like that.

With dating sites, it’s all about what you are showing to the world.

This is what gets the attention of women on dating sites.

Women are extremely picky on who they choose to match with on dating sites.

They only swipe right to like a profile on 4-14% of male profiles.

That means they swipe left on 86-96% of male profiles.

This is in stark contrast to how often men swipe right on female profiles, which is 40 to over 70% of female profiles, and swipe left to pass on only 30 to 60% of female profiles.

This is a significant contrast.

A reason why women are this picky on online dating sites is due to the sheer amount of options they have in men on dating sites.

On some dating platforms, men outnumber women by as much as 70 to 30%.

This means that any man that captures her attention has to really stand out from the other men on the dating site.

The quality of the photos you post on the dating site is a huge factor in whether you capture her attention and keep her from swiping left too quickly.

Also, what you do as a job is substantially important too.

It sets you apart.

No matter how much people want to romanticize male and female relationships, the harsh truth is that these relationships come with conditions.

For women, an integral part of what makes them choose a man to become a long-term mate is in his ability to financially provide.

No matter how much you want to believe that a woman should want to be with you based on the substance of your character and who you are as a person, the reality is that there is so much more that goes into male and female relationships than that.

Women want to be with men who they know are capable of providing for them financially and protecting them by so doing.

This is how it has been since the early days of humanity.

Women have always aspired to be with the best hunter and leader of the tribe because he was the one who was the most capable of providing and protecting both her and her offspring.

It is no different today, regardless of how far technology takes us and how modernized we become as a society.

By putting your job title or the industry you work in on your profile, you demonstrate that you work a good job and have the ability to financially provide.

Yes, that means that you will attract women on a matchmaking site who are all about your earning power and nothing more.

But, this also means that you will attract women who see you as someone they are capable of settling down with long-term, should there be romantic chemistry.

All you have to do is filter through those who only see you as someone to take advantage of financially, versus those who want to settle down and develop a loving relationship with you.

The former are quick to ask you to take them out to expensive locations for dates; the latter prefer a slower approach in getting to know you as a person, leaving you to choose where you want to take them to on dates.