He is still keeping his dating options open.
Regardless of how much he has made you believe that you are the only one he wants to be with, this isn’t true.
By remaining signed up on a dating site, he is holding out for a better match.
It is as plain as day.
Sadly, you care about this guy.
Your emotions for him are sure to confuse you about the reality of what he is doing.
A guy that has made you believe that you are the only one for him and that he is taking you seriously, has no business having an active account on a dating site.
He isn’t backing up his words with his actions.
When a guy realizes that he has met the woman he wants to be in a long-term relationship with, he doesn’t hesitate to delete his dating account.
All he wants to do is direct all of his efforts to courting the girl that he cares about.
In your case, he is still on the dating site, which means that the love and affection he is showing you is basically a smokescreen.
The reality is, he isn’t fully invested in you.
He stays on the dating site to ensure that he doesn’t miss out on connecting with a better match.
As long as he maintains an active account on a dating site, he can never be fully invested in you.
No matter how much it seems as though he is all into you, that is a mirage.
In the back of his mind, he is flirting with the idea of connecting with a new match on the dating site.
He wants to believe that he won’t take that new match seriously, and that all he will do is glance at her profile out of curiosity.
Sadly, he is lying to himself to keep from feeling like the bad guy in maintaining an account on a dating site.
This is a totally misguided mindset.
The moment he is matched with a woman whose physical looks pique his interest, he is not only glancing at her dating profile, he is spending a significant amount of time on it.
He won’t be capable of keeping himself from doing so.
After all, she has a bunch of interesting pictures of herself in various states of dress.
A combination of scantily clad and fully-clothed pictures.
Either way, he is enamored by what he is looking at.
This new match transcends you in physical looks.
The photos further indicate that her life is full of excitement and fun.
What are the chances that he is tempted to correspond with her after looking at all those enticing photos?
Even if all he chooses to do is like a photo of hers, that gesture alone opens the doorway to communication with this new match.
Meanwhile, you are unaware of what he is doing, as you develop deeper feelings for him in the outside world.
This is how you get unnecessarily hurt.
Talk to him about this issue.
Do this before your feelings for him become so strong, you are incapable of thinking logically.
Talk to him and find out how he sees his relationship with you.
Should he say that he sees you as someone he is exclusively dating, he has to back his words up with action by deleting his dating account on this dating site and any other dating site he is on.
Only then is he demonstrating that he is taking you seriously.