Each dating site you have a profile on is uniquely different.
Each one has a uniquely different group of people as members.
Although you are using the exact same profile with the exact same photos on each of these dating sites, the results are different contingent upon the caliber of each dating site’s user base.
For instance, a dating site that has a larger number of older people is unlikely to give you the same results as one that has a larger number of younger people.
Older people have a tendency to take longer to match with or message someone.
They have a lot happening in their lives and aren’t logging into a dating app as frequently as a younger person who doesn’t have as much going on in his life and has plenty of time to kill.
In this scenario, the number of messages you receive won’t be as much and as consistent as what you experience on a dating site that is populated with a larger number of younger people, even though it is the exact same profile.
Furthermore, a dating site that caters more so to a younger crowd has more instances of rude or inappropriate behavior.
This is where you receive messages that are crude in tone, and solely fixated on your external looks.
Some of these young men are brazen enough to ask you to meet up with them right away for sex.
The younger crowd is not all that well-versed in behavioral etiquette, especially when they have the anonymity that a dating site provides.
Believing that he is young and at a stage in his life where he wants to have fun, he isn’t in a hurry to get into a serious relationship.
This is what makes him so brazen in how he messages you, thinking that you should be game to have fun and nothing more.
Besides the influence of a younger or older crowd, the same profile can get different results on different dating sites depending on the positioning of the profile.
You might see that you are receiving a lot more matches and messages on one dating site, while you aren’t on some others.
If the algorithm of the dating site that is sending you the most matches and messages favors your profile, it boosts it into a higher position in search results.
This means that a greater number of members of the dating site get to see your profile than members on the other dating sites that you are on.
Obviously, with this greater visibility, your profile is certain to receive more action in the form of matches, likes, and messages.
What’s more, the words and photos you are using on your dating profile are better matched with subscribers of one dating site over the others.
In other words, your words and photos connect more so with people on one dating site over the others.
Think about your interests, hobbies, educational background, religion, etc.
The dating site that sends you more matches and messages consists of members that relate to your life experience much more closely than those on the other dating sites.