Although you want to connect with this person really badly, it isn’t appropriate to seek her out on Facebook and say hello.

Yes, it is frustrating that she is not active on her dating profile, and seemingly hasn’t been for a while.

Nevertheless, there is a reason why she isn’t active on said mobile dating site.

It’s possible she is taking a break from that dating site at this time, or from online dating as a whole.

Yes, it is creepy to seek her out on social media and say hello to her.

Even though you believe it somewhat justified, being that you liked her profile and it turned out to be a match.

Matching with her on a dating site doesn’t mean that it is appropriate to seek her out on Facebook and say hello.

Telling her that you matched with her on a dating site to justify why you are saying hello doesn’t do you any favors either.

All she is thinking about in that immediate moment is how creepy it is that you sought her out on Facebook and sent her a message completely based on matching with her on a dating site she is no longer active on.

Following her immediate reaction to your message, her next thought is that you have no dating options.

Your message to her on Facebook reeks of desperation.

Girls aren’t attracted to desperate guys, whether they be in real life or on dating websites.

When you show this level of desperation in seeking her out on social media, you are indicating that you don’t have any dating options.

When a girl gets the impression that you don’t have any dating options, she assumes you have a hard time attracting girls.

This is a turnoff to her, as it is with girls in general.

She immediately assumes that a guy who has a hard time attracting girls possesses undesirable qualities.

Undesirable qualities she doesn’t want to be a part of.

Besides creeping her out and making her think you don’t have dating options, by sending her a message saying hello on Facebook, you ruin any future chances of connecting with her romantically.

Should she so happen to return to the dating site on a future date, she quickly unmatches with your profile in her match queue, and blocks your dating profile for good measure.

The thing is, you don’t know whether she is taking a break from dating sites at the moment, choosing instead to prioritize other areas of her personal life.

While she is away from dating sites, it’s possible she eventually develops a renewed itch to meet someone with romantic potential.

Statistically, people who sign up on online dating services are prone to returning after a period of inactivity.

By sending her a message informing her that you both matched on a dating site, and saying hello, you creep her out, ruining any chances that she would want to message you if she were to return to the dating site and resume activity.

She is more liable to unmatching and blocking your profile than sending you a message.

Needless to say, it isn’t a good idea to message this girl on Facebook saying hello.

Develop an abundance mindset instead.

There are far more girls on dating sites than this one girl, and they have active profiles.

Turn your attention to them and leave this girl be.