There have been several times that men on matchmaking apps have thought you to be a catfish or a fake scam account.
He sees your profile and a really pretty face and decides to ignore you, believing that you can’t possibly be real.
This has led you to become more proactive on dating apps by taking the initiative in messaging these men first.
As far as you are concerned, your extreme prettiness is costing you matches on dating apps.
Sadly, this treatment from men on dating apps is akin to what you have experienced with men in the real world.
They never approach you, assuming you are too pretty not to already have a boyfriend.
He deems you to be so way out of his league, he doesn’t want to risk rejection in making a move to approach you and open up a conversation.
Weirdly enough, this is why you have ended up on dating apps in the first place.
You were tired of men in real life making instant assumptions of you based on you being too pretty for them.
Yet, upon signing up on dating apps, you haven’t fared better with men.
Many of them assume that you are a catfish or fake scam account.
It seems like you are stuck, regardless of whether you are looking to connect with men in real life or on dating apps.
First and foremost, let’s get something out of the way.
Being too pretty is not a turn-off to men.
If anything, men are extremely visual in who they are attracted to.
The better looking the woman, the more he is attracted to her.
Being too pretty isn’t the reason why your profile is being ignored by men on dating apps.
Unfortunately, these men have been victims of catfish and fake scam accounts in the past, which is why they are more hesitant to take your profile seriously.
There have been one too many moments when these men have gotten excited over matching with a really pretty woman, only to realize that she was a catfish or someone looking to finagle finances out of them, among other scams.
This leads to him becoming keen on avoiding these profiles in the future.
To keep him from thinking you are a catfish or fake scam account, steer clear of doing what those accounts do with their photos.
Some of the core tactics that catfish and fake scam accounts use on mobile dating apps are over-polished photos.
The girl is super made up in the face with makeup and filters.
Believe it or not, many men love to see a woman in her natural state.
Meaning, he doesn’t care for so much makeup and filters in her photos.
A more natural look goes a very long way.
Any makeup you use in your photos should be light and subtle.
Additionally, have your photos taken in natural settings where you are actually interacting with the environment.
This establishes that you are physically in these venues, which confirms that you are a real person.
Catfish and fake scam accounts are notorious for using photo editors to create fake backgrounds.
Next, although you should have a good number of photos of yourself, have a few photos of yourself among family, friends, work colleagues, etc.
This makes you appear to be someone real with real-life human connections.
Lastly, insert your social media handle into your photos.
The majority of men who see your photo with a social media handle in clear view inside of the photo will quickly check your social media to verify that you are real.
Given that men are naturally drawn to really pretty women, his curiosity to know whether you are real will be too much for him to ignore, thanks to the social media handle inside of your photos.