Shy guys who have done online dating by way of dating apps have discovered how much better it is than what they were used to in dating in real life.

For one, the thing that most shy guys fear the most is nowhere near as bad as it is in real life.

As a shy guy, you know what that thing is.

Rejection.

Rejection on an online dating site is nothing like it is in real life.

Shy guys on dating apps realized that experiencing rejection on dating apps doesn’t feel anywhere near as personal as it does in real life.

You know what it is like to be rejected by a girl in real life.

If you have ever summoned the courage to ask a girl out in real life, whether it be at work, school, the gym, a bar, etc., you remember how personal and heart-wrenching it felt to see her squirm and reject you.

That moment was so painful and emotionally impactful; you went to bed that night thinking about it, and it is never far from your mind whenever you have seen an attractive girl in real life that you were contemplating approaching.

All of a sudden, that previous rejection surges right back into the forefront of your thoughts.

You remember how the rejection practically debilitated you mentally, emotionally, and even physically.

You lost your appetite for a period of time after that rejection.

Thanks to the resurgence of this memory, you choose not to approach the attractive woman.

Sadly, you never gave yourself a chance to find out whether she would have been open to talking to you and going out on a date with you.

That is yet another burden you have had to carry around.

Wondering whether you missed out on an opportunity with an attractive girl because you allowed yourself to be dissuaded from approaching her thanks to a previous rejection from a girl that devastated you.

You don’t have to worry about this with online dating apps.

A girl who isn’t interested in you on a dating site simply swipes left on your dating profile.

You have no idea that she did.

The only time you hear from a girl on a dating site is when she has already swiped right on your profile, matching with you.

This is such a better experience than what shy guys have experienced with girls they like in real life.

The hurt of rejection is greatly reduced with this modernized format for finding potential dates.

Furthermore, when you do get a match, you aren’t stumped for what to say or how to open a conversation.

Think about how mentally traumatic it has been for you to approach women in real life and open up a conversation.

That alone makes you so physically sick, you choose not to approach.

That isn’t an issue on online dating sites.

The girl’s profile is readily available, providing a good amount of information on her that you can use to open a conversation with her.

This makes it so much easier to not only open a conversation with her but also have her be interested in the conversation and a potential future date, given that you are opening with a topic that relates to information about her.

Shy guys think online dating is a godsend, and for many, it’s the avenue by which they met their very first girlfriends.