First impressions are significantly important.

Especially when it is a situation where you have matched with a woman from a dating site and have never previously met her in person.

No matter what impression you have of her based on her profile pictures, you don’t really know who she is or what she is about.

Whatever impression you currently have of her is what she intended based on the pictures she chose to post on her profile on the online dating platform.

That is the impression she is giving to all men on the dating site.

Thanks to this impression, you matched with her, and conversation ensued for a period of time, which led to a strong enough connection that you have arranged to meet with her in person.

This will be your first opportunity to get a real impression of her.

Everything she has shown on her profile through her pictures is what she wanted to convey.

Until you meet her in person on a first date, you have no idea who you are dealing with.

For instance, a woman who has pictured herself in colorful clothing on a dating site is conveying a particular message to men who see her profile.

That of someone with a bubbly, happy-go-lucky personality.

Should she show up on a first date dressed in black along with dark makeup, such as dark eyeliner and lipstick, she is conveying a totally different impression in real time.

That of someone who possibly has mental or emotional issues.

When a woman misrepresents herself like this on a dating app, it is done on purpose.

Sometimes, she was actually that bubbly person with a happy-go-lucky personality who has since changed into this much darker person.

Nonetheless, she chooses to use those old pictures so as to attract a greater number of men.

Given that men who are attracted to emotionally distraught women, who possibly live alternative lifestyles, aren’t all that plentiful.

In a different scenario, she was never that bubbly happy-go-lucky person to begin with, but chose to post those misleading pictures with an intention to attract more men on a dating site.

Either way, it’s deceitful, and was done on purpose.

The way a woman is dressed is a strong indicator of who you are dealing with.

Another example is a lady who has pictures on a dating site of herself dressed conservatively in button-up shirts and sweaters, conveying the idea that she is conservative and wholesome.

If you were to meet her on a first date, and she is dressed in a low-cut blouse and a short skirt, she is clearly showing that the impression she was conveying through her pictures on the dating site weren’t authentic.

She used those photos to lure men like you into her web on the internet dating site.

When you see her in person on a first date, the way she is dressed reveals more about who she realistically is.

And she is no conservative.

All of this aside, the way a woman is dressed on a first date is indicative of whether she knows how to dress for the occasion and has good social awareness.

A woman who overdresses for a coffee date, with a face filled with mascara and a cocktail gown, is clearly showing that she lacks self-confidence.

Her seeming confidence in the text messages she sent you on the dating site was false.

In real life, she is incapable of having any confidence unless she has a bunch of makeup on and is dressed provocatively.

Chemistry on a dating site, in text message exchanges, doesn’t necessarily equate to real-life chemistry.