Guys on dating apps are delusional.

They believe that they are capable of getting a super attractive girl that is out of their league.

This makes no sense, given that he doesn’t attract beautiful girls in real life.

Guys think that dating apps are like magic.

Somehow, as long as he has a dating profile, he is set to be matched with the most beautiful women.

This isn’t realistic.

Know that when you don’t attract beautiful women in your everyday life, you won’t attract them on dating apps.

If anything, it’s harder to get one on dating apps.

Women get a lot of attention on dating apps.

They receive loads of likes, interest signals, and messages.

Given this volume of attention, she becomes privileged and picky.

A beautiful woman receives a gigantic amount of attention from men on dating apps, but so do average looking women.

An average looking woman that receives an average amount of attention from men in her everyday life, receives far more attention on dating apps.

These are men who are emboldened to message or like a woman’s dating profile without the insecurities that accompany approaching a woman in real life.

He doesn’t have to worry about approaching her at a mall, department store, coffee shop, subway station, etc., and risk the embarrassment that comes with rejection.

Dating apps are impersonal.

A bunch of dating profiles on a screen.

Swiping right on a girl’s profile on a dating app is so much less intimidating than approaching the girl behind that profile in a real life setting.

Dating apps have emboldened modern men to approach women, but do so online.

Women receive far more attention on dating apps than they receive in real life, whether beautiful or average looking.

With greater competition for a woman’s attention on dating apps, most guys have their work cut out for them in regards to getting a girl to match with them and eventually meet them on a date.

Guys don’t do themselves any favors either.

Most guys on dating apps don’t set themselves apart from other guys.

He creates a dating profile that is boring to look at, with photos that are old and uninspired.

Without putting in the right amount of effort on your dating profile, you won’t get that many matches.

It takes work to receive a consistent flow of matches on dating apps.

Constructing a dating profile that is captivating requires time and thought.

Putting a personality into your bio requires more than the arbitrary mention that you are a great guy to date.

Posting interesting photos of yourself that grabs a woman’s attention requires more than the ubiquitous selfie taken in front of your bathroom mirror.

In the end, you get what you put into dating apps.

Women are exempt from having to do all this work on their dating profiles.

A few short sentences in her bio, alongside a few generic photos of herself is about enough.

Yes, it seems cruel that guys have to put in so much more work into making dating apps work for them, but that’s the reality of online dating.