Guys on dating apps don’t receive anywhere near as many matches as women, especially skinny women.

When you matched with this guy and asked him about the body types he likes on women, he told you that he’s only been with skinny women.

This is a red flag.

You aren’t a skinny woman, far from it.

As a large or curvy woman, you are who you are.

You joined a dating app with the intent on matching with someone who is attracted to you as a person and your body type.

The fact that he has never been with a big woman is worrisome.

Why would a guy like the dating profile of an overweight woman when he has only been with skinny women?

Sadly, it’s a desperate tactic.

He hasn’t been receiving all that many matches on the dating app, making him think about doing something he has never done before in dating a large woman.

This is out of necessity.

As a man on dating apps, he doesn’t receive anywhere close to the number of matches women do.

He has swiped right on the dating profiles of lots of skinny women, many of whom chose not to match with him.

The few that he has matched with didn’t work out.

The conversations never amounted to much, fizzling out as time went on.

To add insult to injury, he was ghosted on dates.

He hasn’t had a good experience with skinny women on the dating app.

Given that these are skinny women, they receive the greatest amount of attention on a dating app.

Skinny women receive thousands of matches from men on dating apps on any given week.

It’s overwhelming.

This much attention makes these skinny women have a plethora of choices.

It makes her picky.

Conversations with matches that don’t do much to captivate her, quickly fall off over time.

These are skinny women with dating options, and these dating options are never ending.

He doesn’t have the volume of dating options she does.

He realizes this harsh reality fairly soon, as he struggles to get a skinny woman to match with him or go out on a date with him.

This causes him to change his approach.

He starts swiping right on the dating profiles of overweight women, believing that this is his only option at this time.

He wants to match with a woman that sticks around for once.

A woman that doesn’t ghost him after agreeing to meet him in person on a date.

Sadly, a guy who matches with you on a dating app that doesn’t have a history of dating large women doesn’t have the best of intentions.

He chose to match with you as a last resort, out of his dearth of success in matching with skinny women on the dating app.

Do you want to be someone else’s experiment?

Do you want to be someone he is dating out of desperation?

It isn’t worth it.

By dating this guy, you open yourself up to heartbreak in the end.

You are nothing but a placeholder to him.

He is used to dating skinny women and has never dated a large woman.

The moment a skinny woman gives him a chance on a dating app, he is dumping you without hesitation.