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Should I Join A Dating Site?

Should I Join A Dating Site?

A dating site isn’t a replacement for any personal deficiencies you have in regards to making romantic connections with potential partners.

If you have behavioral issues that has led to repeated failure in making romantic connections with prospective partners in the real world, that won’t change on account of joining a dating site.

Whatever behavioral issues that have hindered your love life in the real world is sure to persist in the online dating world.

An inordinate number of people think that joining a dating site is the answer to the hindrances of their personal oddities and drawbacks, several of which have caused the failure of several courtships and relationships in the real world.

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My Girlfriend Seems To Have Visited Two Dating Sites Whilst I Was Gone For Two Weeks. Should I Break Up With Her Or Not?

My Girlfriend Seems To Have Visited Two Dating Sites Whilst I Was Gone For Two Weeks. Should I Break Up With Her Or Not?

A girlfriend that seemingly visited two dating sites whilst you were gone for two weeks is a topic worth discussing with said girlfriend.

This said, before you have this discussion with her, do your research first.

Get as much information as you can about these visits.

Did they occur at times that she is unoccupied?

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I Get Passed By On Dating Sites But Not In Real Life

I Get Passed By On Dating Sites But Not In Real Life

Women on dating sites are far pickier than they are in real life.

Dating sites are akin to a brochure where they flip through glossy pages, only lingering on pages that grab their undivided attention, the equivalent of which would be the dating profiles they are blown away by.

This leads to a far more critical eye in who they deem attractive, as they choose to either swipe left or right on a guy’s profile based on how captivating his photos look.

Dating sites provide the illusion of endless choice.

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When You Are In A Committed Relationship, But Addicted To Dating Sites

When You Are In A Committed Relationship, But Addicted To Dating Sites

Letting go of all the attention you are used to getting on dating sites isn’t easy.

The dopamine rush that the attention gives you is addicting.

Never in our lifetime have we had so much access to attention, thanks to dating sites.

Now that you are in a committed relationship, there is no requirement to stay on dating sites, and yet you have been unable to let them go.

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You Feel Embarrassed About Using Dating Sites

You Feel Embarrassed About Using Dating Sites

According to a survey by the Pew Research center, three in ten adults have utilized the services of a dating site or app.

Should you choose to use dating sites, you are in the company of far too many people for you to ever feel embarrassed about using them.

It’s true that there was a time when people felt embarrassed about using dating sites.

There was a fear of being judged by society at large as a person who was deficient of friends or a social life.

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