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Luke is an experienced professional dating coach who has provided expert dating and online dating advice to thousands of clients for over a decade.

Have You Ever Been Banned From an Online Dating Site?

There are numerous people that are banned from an online dating platform.

For the most part, an online dating site that bans you does so for valid reasons.

Users that send rude messages, post fake profiles, and provide fraudulent financial information are valid reasons to get banned.

However, there are people who get banned on an online dating site due to their ignorance.

Spam from internet dating sites is pervasive.

That, along with a variety of spam promoting a litany of dubious offers from different industries.

Many people receive spam messages that have nothing to do with their online history.

Think about spam messages you receive or have received in the past.

People falsely believe online dating sites to be a magical solution to their dating woes.

The truth is, if you have had issues with finding a suitable mate in real life, the same thing is about to happen on online dating sites.

The issue isn’t with online dating sites per se.

It is with the unrealistic expectations that people who choose to use them have.

Even though this is a person on two different dating sites, it doesn’t mean they use them with the same frequency.

In most cases, a person has a favorite dating site that they use more frequently than others.

In your case, this is a woman who is yet to respond to the message you sent her some time ago.

Since then, you have come across her profile on a different dating site, and you are curious about messaging her on this new dating site.

A good dating site username is energetic and speaks to who you are as a person.

A username that evokes a feeling.

One that sets a mind into a flurry of imagination.

It defines you in a nutshell.