They are not getting the kind of responses that they hoped they would get from women on dating sites.
In other words, these guys may have sent messages to different women that they liked on dating sites, only to have those women either not respond to those messages or send rude responses.
This may have happened enough times to these guys that they get upset.
They start looking at every woman on dating sites as they are now looking at the women that they have sent messages to in the past.
They may look at you as rude and entitled, even though you had nothing to do with the experiences that they have had with other women that they have sent messages to on dating sites.
As a result, these guys send mean messages to you on dating sites because they are hoping to get back at all those women who have either sent them rude responses or no responses.
Unfortunately, these guys put you under the same umbrella even though you may have done nothing to them.
When these guys send mean messages on dating sites for this reason, they are often refusing to take responsibility for their past actions.
They may have not sent the most polite or conversation-inducing messages to girls on dating sites in the past.
Oftentimes, on dating sites, guys will send generic or superficial messages like, “Hi, my name is INSERT NAME HERE,” or “Hey Gorgeous.”
These kind of messages rarely get responses from girls on dating sites.
These kind of messages do not make girls feel the need to respond because they do not invite conversation and they are solely focused on looks.
However, some of these guys who send these kind of messages are unable to allow themselves to understand that and accept responsibility for the kind of messages that they are sending to girls on dating sites.
They are unwilling or unable to make adjustments to these messages.
They simply tell themselves that the girls who are receiving these messages and not responding are self-centered.
They tell themselves that the girls who respond rudely to a superficial message that they sent are the ones with the problem and not them.
This unwillingness to take responsibility for the kind of messages that they send to girls on dating sites makes it that much easier for them to blame every girl on dating sites for their misfortune.
Hence, these guys start sending mean messages to girls like you who have done nothing to them.
They do this to get back at all those girls who sent rude responses to their messages or who didn’t respond at all to them.
Doing this makes them feel better about their plight.
It gives these guys a sense of satisfaction that they are now able to make every girl that they send messages to on dating sites feel bad for something that other girls did to them.
Another reason why some guys send mean messages on dating sites is because they are hoping to get a reaction out of you.
They may have sent really plain and harmless messages to girls on dating sites that didn’t get responded to.
They may have gotten to a point where they feel that playing it safe in this way has gotten them nowhere.
Hence, they choose to use the opposite approach.
They decide to start sending mean messages to girls on dating sites in the hopes that some of them will be offended enough by these messages that they will respond.
Oftentimes, this is a way for these guys to just get some kind of attention on dating sites even if the attention may be an angry or negative reaction.
Getting a girl to respond to them in any way, even if it is in anger or negatively, makes these guys feel as though they have finally caught someone’s attention on dating sites.
This can give them a temporary sense of relevancy.
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